Controlling measures for the Child Sexual Abuse

As everyone knows, that an act of sexual child abuse is a curse for a society and a great threat as well. Child sexual abuse is also called child molestation in which an adult or older adolescent uses a child for sexual stimulation. “Nurturing of parents” creates a very pivotal role to look after his/her child and to keep an eye on them. Because social isolation is one of the family risk factors for child sexual abuse. Moreover, it’s a parent’s duty to nurture their child as good as they can, so they can be refrained from such abuse. Be friendly with their children. This is the most chief manner by which this sexual abuse can be prevented from happening. The reason is that, when there is a friendly environment between a child and their parents, he/she can share everything on a routine basis that what is happening around him/her or what is happening to her/him in school or such any public and private place.

Teach him/her a code word if such act going to happened to them is a way, to get rid of this curse is that, a mother or a father may guide to his/her adolescent child if any such nasty act happens to them, then they can tell them indirectly in the front of everyone so that their parents may proceed further action against them. For example, they can teach a code word to their children a “one and one makes eleven” so that they may perceive without knowing the predator. Talk with them about their private parts. It is one of the most pivotal factors which refrain from such doing of any wrongful act by the paedophile. The writer, however, stresses this point that a special code word can give your kids a way out of a bad situation. With the mutual understanding between the children and their parents, they are bound to tell their children that what are the private parts of the body and what is the difference between a good touch and a bad touch.

Beware of strangers, the parents are liable to tell their kids that beware of any stranger whom they don’t know. Especially, in public places and not to meet with them at a private spot. Results indicate that offenders gain access to children through caretaking, such as by using bribes, gifts and games or threats and etc.

By promoting the programs in a school, is one of the best way, by which a child seeks or become aware of it. That’s how to protect themselves. Children’s self-protective skills and knowledge can be increased by participation in school-based sexual abuse prevention programs. This lies upon a school for example children at the age of under 18, must aware of the fact that pedophiles exist in our society and how we can prevent them. In addition to this, the program comprised one group work service and four types of one-to-one work delivered to children and young people aged under 7 to 18. The parent needs to be more vigilant about their child’s activities, this, although no doubt creates an important to prevent from child sexual abuse. For example, the parent shouldn’t allow for their children to go anywhere alone without their permission like (with friends, markets, public places, in a mob, or wandering here and there without any reason). Just due to arising any frightful situation. Although, parent education appeared to have little effect upon parent’s knowledge of prevalence of child sexual abuse. 

In addition to this, give shelter to those children who are wandering lonely on the streets, this is one of the main reasons, of the child sexual abuse. As we observe, that there are thousands of children who have no parents, relatives, friends and even no one who assist them. In the same manner, usually, most of such children who are wandering on the streets for instance (beggars, vagrants, derelicts, scrounger, moocher, paupers and tramps) are mostly becoming the victim of the child sexual abuse. In addition to this, the (Government and Human Rights Organizations along with the rest of Business Tycoons) may provide them shelter with proper food. It will obviously, decrease the sexual abuse on the children. The government must create harsher laws for the paedophiles and identify them in a society so children can be protected against them. For example, to curb this crime the Capital Punishment and Life imprisonment is the best way to get rid of from such heinous crime that exists in a society.

The criminals of child sexual abuse must be hanged so that it sets an example for everyone whoever do such act in a society and the ratio of this crime will gradually decrease. Moreover, the government needs to do one thing more and that is to publicize his face in the form of the picture which must be pasted at every corner of society and identify them in society. Child’s Mood, it’s a responsibility of a parent to observe and notice the facial impression or their children. That, he or she can tell you the truth, what was happened to her or him on such a place where he/she spent the leisure time. To discuss consequences of abuse on childhood behavioral development, might alert physicians to ongoing child abuse. If any negative or fearful impressions arise from that face, then don’t allow the child to go to a certain place next time. 

Other behavioral changes which may indicate abuse include changes in sleeping pattern, weight gain, or weight loss. A heightened sense of vigilance and fearfulness. Clampdown on Child Pornography, The government must clamp down the all pornographic websites regarding the child pornography. It’s just like add the fuel on a fire. Despite enabling these websites, these websites should be permanently banned. And it will make a positive impact on society as well. So, these are some important factors which lead towards the prevention of child sexual abuse in society. In a nutshell, we must not forget that every piece of child pornography depicts a terrible crime, the sexual abuse of a child.

The writer Muhamamad Zaman Butt is a Law Graduate from the University of Lahore, he can be reached at muhammadzamanbutt666@gmail.com.