Controlling parents and their way of raising kids

Being born in totally desi families bring many positive and negative points, usually, desi parents have an inbuilt habit of controlling kids from what they should eat to how they should dress up. Such behavior of parents would be protective to great extent but when kids grow up, they start to limit their exposure and maturity as well. 

As long as we are kids or teenagers, this protection shield saves us from many bad experiences and raises us better kids in the future but if this protection starts suffocating kids that means it is blocking kids’ growth and their exposure. Let these kids have their own experience and let them see what’s right and what’s wrong just be there throughout their life, guide them and give them constant support from emotional to whatever they need to be based on your capacity. 

What I have seen parents are naïve as well either they want to control all from what they do to what they eat or lack of care at all this dysfunctional or extremist behavior of kids raised absolutely confused boys and girls who are restoring this anger throughout their life and takes revenge from the society. 

Parents don’t understand their flawed style of parenting raising abnormal kids and when they grow up, they create replicas of what they have gone through in houses.  Parents need to understand one thing they are setting up examples for their kids by whatever they do in houses.  

Secondly, what is observed kids are raised in the hands of maids or nannies, which is absolutely fine as long as both parents are busy at work but they should keep check and balance on them and on kids’ activities as well, what they are watching on T.V, what kind of activities they are indulged and whom they idealize? Because ultimately these all are contributing factors in a child’s upbringing process and will be reflected when they enter in their practical lives. 

Untill now it is observed even parents doesn’t want to own if their kids are destroying lives or raising as a completely abnormal kid in society because they are themselves destroying lives so what kids will learn? The same behavior and they think it’s right to hurt the public at large for your own interest which is an absolute disaster.